April 2011 to republish this articleSo many people want to be in love. It is a great place to be when it is healthy and meet your requirements, needs and wants. Yet so few people are really clear on what it is for them. If you've been in relationships that have finished, and you have allowed yourself time for grief, letting go, understanding how it has contributed to the dynamics, and live life with joy in this, then you are more ready to be in love with someone who did not.
There is a difference between wanting to be in love and ready to be in love. Wanting to be in love implies a desire without taking responsibility for what's being in love really means for you and your life. Is a desire or a desire for someone else to come in and make your life better, or fill a vacuum. Often there is a pursuit or sedimentation quality about your experience and often unsatisfactory results, and reports often rely solely on physical chemistry to guide you. When you want to be in love, you aren't necessarily ready to be in love.
Ready for being in love means that you have taken the time to heal from past experiences. Also have examined these experiences for understanding and clarity in moving forward to what is right for you. You have assumed the responsibility for your life, relationships and how you have shown in them. You're enjoying your life, on who you are, what you want and willing to balance out the head and heart in making choices about love. When you are ready for love, rather than the stem fall or experience hoping. It is rooted in the choice, which, in my opinion, is much more healthy.
Take a moment to look at your reasons and actions towards dating, love and relationships. Ask yourself the following questions: Do you want to be in love for love's sake? Like being in love will improve or alter your life? The equation that what to bring? Something is missing from your life that will hopefully be lovers will solve? What steps can you take to feel safe that you are ready and willing to be in love with the perfect person for you?
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